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Kink-inspiring Hotels #NSFW
What the fuck makes a hotel ‘kink-inspiring’? Well, that’s a really good question and I’m trying to give my personal opinions here. You will not find any of these on your typical list of kink-themed hotels. Quite to the contrary, most of them are very upscale hotels; something that actually makes being naughty all the […]
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Breathe and stay kinky
There are a thousand reasons to feel depressed. And there is just one reason to stay kinky. It’s so easy to get swept up in daily news, madness, insanity, and genuine human tragedy. This will continue for a while. Trying to keep up with it, to think that it will all be different tomorrow, is […]
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Single and blogging
I started blogging a little over a year ago, having no idea what I was doing. Before that, I had never kept a diary or any other way of keeping track of what happened in my life. I had my reasons. I didn’t want to leave a record of what I was doing. Not only […]
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Should you be wearing a Gasmask?
With the Corona Virus running rampant around the world, we all are getting used to wearing some form of facial covering. Some, mostly for show, go so far as to wear gasmasks in public. But it begs the question, should you be wearing a gasmask? It crossed my mind that once you’ve experienced walking around […]
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Springtime Pleasures
There it is, my favorite place it the world. Claude Monet’s garden in Giverny. Mid-May, also happens to be Mothers Day, and a glorious late afternoon. Time to get kinky. I write a lot about my kinks, but the occasions when I feel fully immersed in them, are rare. When they do happen, and just […]
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Breathe #sb4mh
I’ve left Manhattan after weeks of self-isolation. This was not how I had envisaged it when I arrived to study at Columbia. I imagined receiving my degree on a glorious day in mid-May, thousands of us wearing our gowns proudly. All the ceremonies, parties, and anticipation of what comes next. Today’s reality is different, but […]
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The upside of ‘Stay-at-Home’ – #NSFW
The situation in New York is grim. That’s probably putting it mildly. Being under strict orders to stay at home, avoid contact with other people, and practicing ‘social distancing’ takes its toll. Life without human interaction is not something I want to ever get used to. It’s a new reality, though. At least for another […]
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Fuck an Escort – Alyssia 4.0 #SOSS
Berlin, late summer, he had booked one of my favorite hotels. I had seen him once or twice before. It was always fun, and he had a body to die for. I check in under his name, we were Mr. and Ms. The room was prepaid, nothing to do but pick up an envelope with […]
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The Temptation of Edge Play #NSFW
As an escort, I had strict rules. Among them, never give up control. That included using only my own equipment. Nipple clamps, paddles, floggers, or anything that could inflict pain had to be my own. And I had tested each item to be ‘soft’ enough to avoid serious injury, even if a client was a […]
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Should I be more dominant?
In recent weeks, I haven’t been as active as I had hoped. Of course, I have a good excuse. With a baby on the way, barely a month from my due date, life slows down. School is only getting into spring break the week of March 16, just in time for ‘bump’ to come into […]
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Kinky then and Kinky now #F4Thought
I had been a misfit for a long time. The kink community gave me a home. Not just in real life, also through the blogging community. I cannot imagine life without kink. Mine is very simple. Fetishes, particularly latex. With a baby well on its way, at 40, I wrestled with the notion of losing […]
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Kinky Mom Kicks Ass
So I haven’t been on my blog so much lately. I’m counting the days when my little bump will become a person (although we already have plenty of conversations, and I still win our arguments). In the meantime, I’m obsessing over my transparent latex dress, which finally fits and provides support for my boobs! Now […]
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Alyssia gets pissed
I hadn’t seen one of my regular clients for quite some time. I was beginning to think he was just not into me anymore. Even worse, I found out that he had been together with one of the girls who had just joined the agency. I knew she was barely of legal age. The ’19’ […]
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Fuck an Escort, it’s healthy! – Alyssia 3.0
After a few years of being in the escort business, I figured out my niche. I was really good at getting fucked by clients who had a wife and family. It took me a while to get there, but it was worth it. Married men are more stable, reliable clients. They know why they want […]
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Latex for the curious 4 #SinfulSunday
It’s warm outside and I’m reminded of some outdoor adventures. I’d love to go outside wearing some naughty latex outfit, bet nobody would blink an eye here in the City. Only problem, my body doesn’t fit into any or the latex clothes I have! So here is some recent reminiscing about wearing a full length […]
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