Spoiler Alert – I have a girlfriend

OK, let’s get real. From what I’m putting on my blog, in particular the pictures that I’m posting, you must have known that there is another person involved. Well, I have the most wonderful girlfriend who is at least as kinky as I am, but doesn’t carry my emotional baggage or dubious history.

While I was in the US, we didn’t get to see each other very much, certainly not during COVID. We’re not lovers, at least not in the sense of being in a relationship. That doesn’t mean she’s not taking advantage of me from time to time (or maybe I am just so irresistible, lol).

So, if you ever wondered who the lucky guy was taking pictures of videos of me, in all likelihood it’s been her. Not always, but often.

Does that mean I’m into women? Well, yes and no. The men I’ve met were more willing to be the dominant partner, although most of them sucked at it. She’s one of a handful of girls that I’ve ever had sex with. The sex is great, but I’m not really looking for a relationship with other women. None of them were even remotely interested in having me as their sub. In most cases, I didn’t even ask and was happy for some awesome sex.

You’ll never see a picture of her. She’s just not into that. But she does get a kick out of glossing up my latex, taking pictures, helping with bondage and just making sure I look good. So, if I look good, or there is an amazing picture, you can thank her. I certainly do. 🙂

Speaking of pictures, I know that I don’t have to post them. Blogs can live perfectly good lives without having an original picture in every post. But it’s part of what makes me, me. I’m a very visual person. I love beauty. For me, beauty is when I see something and it makes me linger. There are a lot of pictures posted by others that do the trick for me. Devie is one of them (and I could list some many more).

So, when I put my own little list together (remember the ‘anonymous‘ letter) I knew that I had someone to take those pictures. And a few videos, although they aren’t quite as polished.

She does have a very mischievous side to her. Remember the picture where I was in a hotel bar, getting a drink, all polished in my latex dress and gloves? Well, just after I ordered the drink and thought she’d take the picture, she suddenly had this overwhelming urge to use the bathroom.

I was just sitting there hoping that she’d be back in time. We needed two people in the picture, and I needed her to be the third. Now she was gone! And of course, my drink arrived just as she had left. Fuck!!

Without blowing the first task that I had set for myself, I just had to ask this cute guy who was serving me to take a picture with my phone. While he was pouring the drink!! He was a really good sport about it, probably figured that I was trying to make a move on him (which I may still do!) and took an amazing, almost acrobatic, selfie shot while pouring a drink! Boy did he earn his tip!

So, yeah, it’s great to have a girlfriend who is into kinky shit, but shitty when she bails on purpose to embarrass me. Of course, she knows that public humiliation is among the kinks that I get off on. The guy serving me was probably not nearly as hot as I remember, but at the moment, feeling the humiliation growing, he could have asked for anything in return.

Just as a teaser, I have to leave you with a picture, sorry, I’m just still somewhat obsessed with actually having a chance to do things I haven’t done in the US at all. How this picture came about is up for another post.

P.S.: I’m really sorry if my writing seems a little bubbly. I’m not drunk or anything, I just feel like there is so much to say. I could write a book about it. But that wouldn’t be nearly as much fun as posting on a blog.

P.P.S.: I have to look which memes to link this up to, but someone (very little) is calling.

30 thoughts on “Spoiler Alert – I have a girlfriend

  1. Don’t be sorry. I believe you might be lucky though, to find someone who is kinky and to be able trust them is truly a rare thing. I consider myself lucky to have found someone as articulate as you to bring life to my solitude.

    1. I’m glad that I can bring some life to your solitude, although it does not replace exiting the state of solitude. I am lucky that, even after having lived away, we reconnected easily. On the other hand, this will never be more than a mutual sharing or kinky interests. At least both of us expect something different. But for now, it works. xoxo

    1. It is certainly something that I have missed over the past years – with the occasional exception. We’ll see where it goes, it’s not where I see myself in the long-term but for now, I’m happy. xoxo

    1. Thank you, David and Sir! It’s always been that I had an easier time exploring my sexuality with girls, but when it comes to relationships, I’m looking for a dominant man. I’m glad that, at least in your case, one does not pose an obstacle for the other. xoxo

      1. Thanks Francesca. I enjoyed a decade long bdsm relationship with a wonderful bisexual woman Sarah in 1980s London. If you are interested, my erotic art can be viewed on Instagram @davidlewisbaker_artist The work, I believe, reveals a lot about me. I will not be offended it this is of no interest to you. David/Sir xx

  2. It sounds like a great relationship the two of you have. That image is stunning and I am so glad that you are feeling energized by being in a different environment. Missy x

    1. It’s hard to describe how much of a difference a change of scenery makes. In particular going back to a place that I know, where I feel like I fit in and don’t have to worry about offending others. And reconnecting with old friends has its benefits. 😉 xoxo

  3. I am happy you’re now feeling freed up to play again in different ways. And that you have a supportive friend is a bonus except when she slinks away. Another beautiful imaginative looking into the future image of you!

    1. I forgive her for slinking away…..she only did it because she knows what turns me on. So much has already happened, I am still digesting it. But my newly found adventures are far from over 😊 xoxo

    1. Thanks, Lisa. So true. It really was a drag when I was still in the US and with the shutdown there was really no opportunity to take any new pictures (and I’m not great at selfies). She’s just one of the many people who make me feel at home again. xoxo

  4. I actually love the bubbly style of this post, as it brings across your happiness to be where you are very clearly. Love, love, love that image, and look forward to read the story behind it 🙂
    ~ Marie xox

    1. I guess ‘bubbly’ can be good 🙂 I’m about to write up what’s behind the picture, but first needed to catch up on comments. Time just flies when you’re having fun. xoxo

  5. Francesca, I LOVE that photo! Just perfect, and it reflects your personality and interests. I appreciate your wonderful openness in your post, and look forward to each new one. You are a beautiful woman with so many talents. Send me that postcard from Germany to the P.O. box I gave you when you have a chance. Lots of love, from Dani xxx.

    1. Hi Dani! I’m so glad you like it. There is so much going on right now, but I did have the urge to like out my kinky side before I start settling into a (yet to be found) job. The days just fly by, but I’ll eventually find a postcard. 🙂

    1. Of course I will post about it! I can’t leave a picture like that as a teaser and then not follow through. Actually, following through had a lot to do with taking the picture. 😉

    1. I hope it wasn’t just a fleeting moment — now bars, restaurants, hotel, etc. are all closed and we’re going through the next Covid lockdown stage. Hopefully I’ll find some time to catch up on writing, and roam around your latest work. xoxo

  6. Stunning image
    The space
    The position
    The colors and contrast
    Urges enflamed
    My Kitten will benefit from those thoughts
    I hope, unless time and children keep us from the kink. Sigh. Life. Wouldn’t change a thing.

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