Seductive Photography

There is no sex without turning on the brain. Whatever stimulates the brain, triggers the rest of the body to respond. I’ve been using photography, professionally and privately, to express myself as a sexually submissive woman. For someone who loves a good fuck, it remains a fucking hard journey.

It started when I entered the escort business. Honestly, I looked very average at best; I had no idea how to hold myself, how to look or get any emotion into pictures. Not that I didn’t want to, it’s just that having a professional photographer telling me to look seductive doesn’t really work.

So, I practiced; by myself with just a Polaroid. The great thing about a Polaroid is that it can’t lie. It is what it is. I may not like it, but it’s what I look like at the moment. Some parts a great, others distorted. Nothing really the way I feel.

Looking at professional pictures, erotica, I didn’t feel much of a response. They were too overt, too sexual on their surface. Occasionally, there were pictures that showed raw sexual emotion. Those I love.

Trying to show that kind of emotion in pictures, at least for me, is hard. I can’t fake my emotions. Not during sex, not when taking pictures. I don’t moan during sex, I don’t scream from the top of my lungs when I have a fantastic orgasm. It just doesn’t happen.

It took me a long time to figure out that my style was much more subtle. Yes, I do love latex, but that’s just my kink. It’s not what makes a picture sexy or seductive. The ones that I love to shoot are like a deep look into my brain.

The ones that say ‘I’m yours, lead me, take me, and I will submit’. It’s not being tied-up in bondage, may not involve any sexual props at all. The perfect, seductive, picture is one where it’s a scene, almost a movie, captured in one image.

The picture tells the story, of romance, submission, what is to come. An insight into my brain’s state of mind. Honest, sincere, and genuinely me. That’s a tall order. It takes hundreds of shots to get one that I actually like. The most subtle differences, sometimes even just in the ambiance, can make or break a picture.

I’m still chasing the perfect picture. The one where I can see myself. Where I know what is going on in my brain, that I want to seduce others. This one, perhaps, comes closer than any other.

I have no idea who’s looking at this picture; I don’t see you, don’t read your mind. Maybe all you see is a dinner table and a person looking down at the table. But then you notice the romantic setting, the baroque clock in the background. Two wine glasses, the napkins sill neatly folded on the table.

She has her face partially covered by strains of slightly blond hair. There is no smile on her face; she is in her own world. Thinking. Although her posture is upright, her head is bowed. Then you notice her collar, barely visible. Her 0-ring firmly locked around her neck. She makes no attempt to hide it. For her, it is part of who she is; in private or in public.

Her hands delicately hold an empty glass. She’s still waiting. Waiting for what the evening may bring. Though she is already dressed for the unusual. The way her partner would want her to be seen in public. Elegant, and shameless. From the revealing cut-outs to the barely visible shimmer reflecting off the latex dress.

Your mind has to write the rest of this movie. She’s ready, her mind is ready. Ready to give herself, be the submissive to the viewer; and proud of it.

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27 thoughts on “Seductive Photography

      1. would be perfect if you could read my mind, everytime I read about you there’s already a strong attraction about your mind your way of dress up and you are right everything start from our brain and I’m sure if we will meet, and I guess it, that could be something very special because my mind and brain want yours

      2. I love everything about you! I will kidnap and bring you to Paris in a three stars restaurant plus many enjoys that we like both of us

  1. Beautiful inviting portrait to invite your intended to an evening or weekend of creative kink, sensuous sharing, artistically aesthetic experiences. I see a confident woman, humbly sitting upright, meditatively waiting for the expected one to arrive in the scene you have created. The glass she is holding with her left hand is there to magnify her elegant boustiere and left breast. Soon the expected one will arrive on the stage she has created. xx moxiedavid

  2. There have been times when I have held the camera and said “look sexy” knowing that it is so unhelpful. Trying to paint an idea of what I’m thinking with my words. I think you’re right its about the emotion and perhaps the parts of an image you don’t see, that the viewer must think about themselves, rather than sexual elements combined into one image. Like the restaurant image, but then again I’d love to go anywhere right now!

    1. Maybe that’s why it’s one of my favorites right now – going anywhere would be nice! And who knows, by then, I won’t care about the ambiance and any old joint will seem sexy to me. xoxo

  3. I always enjoy your images, Francesca, and have seen many of your images I would classify as ‘perfect’. Your words under the image have really made me LOOK at the image. Lovely post!
    ~ Marie

    1. You always have such nice compliments, Marie! Thanks for ‘looking’ inside the picture. xoxo

  4. Beautiful image Francesca and made me think of an image i have that i think I may use for my entry – the holding of the wine glass
    May xx

    1. Thanks, May. There is something very sensual about a wine glass. Maybe it’s just the shape or the anticipation of things to come… xoxo

  5. What a brilliant post. I love the detail you look for in a picture and I know what you mean about wanting to find the ones that show what you are thinking and feeling. This is a fantastic image too – I love it 😊

  6. I always wanted a Polaroid camera!! Although I suspect there would have been many images of fingers and ceilings lol

    Wonderful pictures in this post Francesca, thank you for sharing 🙂

  7. Such a lovely photograph, with as you say, ‘where it’s a scene, almost a movie, captured in one image.’ I love those images that make you wonder what next? I have a book containing Jack Vettriano paintings, and whilst quite commercial, the heavy sexual connotations always make me wonder what else was going on. You pictures do the same thing!

  8. Your first line says it all, Francessca. Absolutely love the shot with all the Polaroid photos. I have a clock almost identical to the on in your glam photo, I’ll take a pic tomorrow.

    1. Did you ever take the pic? I’d love to see it. Sorry that I’m only five months late responding…. Btw, that picture was taken in a great restaurant in St. Petersburg, so it could just be that the clock is a genuine original… xoxo

  9. Those are my favorite kinds of erotic photos, too…the kind that tell a story and urge the mind to find it…or write it! That, to me, is the biggest difference between porn and erotica…story.

  10. This was such an interesting post, getting a peek into your creative mind. I agree with the photographs that tell a story, that are about capturing an atmosphere or a mood. Anyone can take a nude, but to take a truly erotic picture, a lot has to go into it.

    1. Can’t believe I’m five months late…hope I can blame this on the Covid-induced brain fog. The work that goes into creating the atmosphere is one of the things I love about all the pictures that you include in your posts. They do tell a story, say something about you that can’t be captured in words. xoxo

    1. Thank you! And I really do appreciate that you went ‘back in time’ to look at some of the older posts. Turns out, I missed comments that I hadn’t seen since I put up the post. I hope this Covid cloud will soon be lifted. xoxo

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